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				How Long to Wait?
  
				I feel like it is taking me longer to feel comfortable dating new people than it does for the friends i have had who deal with the same things.... 
 
are there a lot of people who feel like they are just not getting over their divorce as soon as other people? 
 
I just feel like I have some mental problem cuz I am so hung up on what happened still i mean it has been months but i am scared that i will hit one year and get freaked out because im not over this 
 
anybody's comments i would love to read
				
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			doctorX 
			
			
			
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				Divorced 4 times
  
				Take the advice of an old man who was divorced 4 times over 80 years. 
 
Divorce hurts. After divorce there is always loneliness pain. Go on dates to ignore the divorce, lessen the pain. 
 
If you haven't dated in a year, you will still be in pain. Stop thinking. Start dating. 
 
Start living!
  
				
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			codybiltmore 
			
			
			
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				After divorce start dating right away
  
				Don't wait to be social after a divorce. Waiting is only based on fear, and that's not what you want. Go have fun. You've earned it.
				
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